Most men and women won't admit it, but they both have a secret wish of a bigger-sized penis. There is not doubt that the dissatisfaction with penis size gives rise to profound distress and even psychosocial interaction difficulties.

"I'm a depressive guy and I can't maintain a relationship with any girl"

(RFA, 22)

I feel impotent before the obstacles that life has placed in my path. Ever since I was a kid I've been suffering because of my penis size, I'm a depressive guy and I can't maintain a relationship with any girl because I'm afraid of not obtaining satisfactory penetration. I get anxious when my friends tell me about their relationships and I have to lie, or when we are in the dressing room and they show off their penises as if they were trophies, so I have to hide for fear of comparisons.

"There is nothing more humiliating for a man than hearing a woman say that his penis is small"

(JMS, 30)

I had my first experience with a woman at 17. When the girl saw the size of my penis, she just got dressed and left looking angry and disappointed and I left feeling utterly ashamed. As time went by, everything in me kept growing, except what I wanted the most, and at 22 I had another disappointing experience. There is nothing more humiliating for a man than hearing a woman say that his penis is small. Many women think I'm attractive and approach me, but now I live in an emotional turbulence that prevents me from getting into any relationship.

"When I go to the beach I never wear swim briefs, as I don't even wear underwear in front of other people"

(JR, 24)

I feel greatly attracted to women, but I've never had sexual relations because the shame I feel of my penis size is greater than the desire of fulfilling my sexual fantasies. When I go to the beach I never wear swim briefs, as I don't even wear underwear in front of other people. My sexual life is limited to masturbating while I watch pornographic movies. My parents, who are unaware of this problem, keep asking me why I don't have a girlfriend yet if I often go out with women. I guess they think I'm homosexual. I must solve this problem as soon as possible, as this situation is smothering me.

"Because of lack of privacy, I was the target of mockery and jokes from my colleagues"

(MFR, 32)

Before my daughters were born I got as far as asking God for them to be girls, for if they were boys I knew they would go through the same problems I've experienced in my life. I suffered a lot during military service, since because of lack of privacy, I was the target of mockery and jokes from my colleagues. I always stayed away from my classmates in swimming classes, showers, dressing rooms and barracks to avoid their jokes at the size of my penis.

"My self-esteem is completely affected and I'm avoiding women"

(CBN, 34)

I have a small penis and I have often been the target of jokes by friends and women. My relationships always ended because I was betrayed by my partners. Apparently they had no reason to betray me with another man because I was always very affectionate, kind and an excellent head of household. After my last breakup and several attempts at reconciliation, my ex-wife revealed that she never felt pleasure with me because of my penis size. After hearing this words I got into deep depression, feeling a loser and a total coward because I had always refused to see what was I looking at. Today my self-esteem is completely affected and I am avoiding women, as I can't give them the pleasure they seek just with my charisma. Will I be able to feel a true man some day? I can't stand this suffering, shame and despair anymore.